Welcome to Best Life After Cancer. I am Shari Berman a two-time cancer survivor. My blog is targeted to the millions of cancer patients and survivors who are looking for hope and inspiration in light of the challenges of a cancer diagnosis. My Story Diagnosed as a young adult, at age 25 with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma, I had to quickly face the reality of life’s curveballs. My treatment offered a potential cure while at the same time, underestimated the long term side effects including a secondary cancer (breast cancer) nine years later. Shortly after my breast cancer treatment ended, my youthful, seemingly healthy mother was diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer and passed a year later. I have lived the cancer experience as a patient and a family member/ caregiver and understand both sides. Life after treatment is often challenging emotionally and physically and there is a gap in providing needed support. I don’t consider cancer a gift as it is not something I would ever want to give to someone. Rather, I view cancer as an opportunity; one I received at an early point in my life to live intentionally, understanding how things can change at any moment. I live without regrets, fully understanding the gift and fragility of life.

Resilience

To My Dog. Dear Sweet Melby

My sweet girl Melby, Today my heart is broken. 7 months ago you had a horrible seizure and scared us. The vet said you probably had a brain tumor. Just like that. I felt like I got sucker punched. My…

Resilience

Goodbye, 2020. What A Year It Has Been.

When I was diagnosed with cancer, one of the first lessons I learned was living with uncertainty. This year reminded me of this lesson and tested my resiliency. A year of learning how to readjust and shift my mindset. Understanding…